After marriage, I immediately followed my husband. Because I am the last child of five children, my mother and father advised my husband, “Son, please take care of your feelings and hearts because you have never yelled at our last child.”
Honestly, I’m very happy because my in-laws and brother-in-law are very very welcome accept me in his family. However, all that feeling disappeared instantly when I was pregnant with my first child.
When I was pregnant and living with my in-laws, I actually had very severe drunken cravings. Even had to be infused, while the husband only came home once a week.
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My mother-in-law said that I was lazy, didn’t want to move, didn’t want to sweeping, don’t want to cook. The words even reached the driver, “Have a son-in-law who pretends to be drunk so he can make excuses or not” working homework.”
The words were spoken in front of me. However, the driver defended me and understood. He even said,”Natural name again pregnant. My wife is like that too, bad very instead,” he said to his mother-in-law.
A few weeks after that, I went with my mother-in-law to a friend’s place who was having an event. After the event was over, in front of the crowd and mostly mothers, the mother-in-law said to her friends, “Is there something to do? here for my son-in-law. Let it move, let it work, don’t become an unemployed graduate.”
Honestly, my heart was broken by those words. One day, my mother-in-law said, ”Why did you choose this undergraduate school (censorship) instead of choosing this graduate school? So just now you are unemployed and can only depend on husband’s money.
I have not dared to tell my husband about what has happened so far. Later, after choosing the right day, I will tell you all about it.
But until my son is now two years old, I am still being teased by unemployed graduates who have no income. You can still hear the words,What are you doing become a scholar if you end up at home?”.
Still grateful to have a strong heart even though until now the attitude of the mother-in-law is like that. I would not be strong like this if my little daughter always gave me a sincere and sincere smile every day.
(Mrs. NN Ric, did not provide location)
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