Assalamualaikum Mother, may you always be healthy. I’m here to tell a little story. I happen to be a housewife with a two year old son. Coincidentally, my husband and I married without dating, we had known each other for a long time when we were still in college, even though we were from different universities.
Exactly July 2018 my husband tried to get up the courage to apply and coincidentally at that position I failed to apply with another man. I was trying to get up the courage to open my heart even though many said it was too hasty. But I’m sure with my husband at that time we finally got married at the end of 2018.
But the problem is my own mother-in-law. From the very beginning I was introduced to her house, my mother-in-law didn’t like it because I didn’t work in an office. He was ashamed because his extended family worked. I tried to back away but my husband convinced us to do it so I believed.
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4 weeks pregnant, my in-laws only talk about my husband’s past who works at a state-owned enterprise, I’m patiently trying to get used to it. I was 4 months pregnant when I started having severe morning sickness and couldn’t eat, when there happened to be a wedding in my husband’s extended family. At that time I just asked for help is there any other food besides rice?
There the mother-in-law immediately said, “No need repot people just eat what is there.” Those words made me start drop, especially without a husband because he is working out of town. I try to keep smiling even though my heart is crying.
I am thankful that Pak De’s son understands my mother-in-law’s character. He immediately took me to the kitchen and said, “Dek, I have a burnt liver, do you want to eat it?”.
I nodded. I took cold rice and cold roasted liver that had been taken, I ate behind the kitchen door while crying.
7 months pregnant mother-in-law warns that birth normal, don’t have SC (cesarean section) because SC is the same as a spoiled woman, not perfect, not completely a woman. I was shocked beyond measure and yes, obviously I was disappointed and angry. I immediately said, “Mom, every woman who is given by God to be able to get pregnant with a 9-month child, whether she has a normal birth or an SC is the same as a mother.”
Mother-in-law retorted, “That name you lazy!” Astagfirullahhonestly heart hurts!
When I finally became the mother of his grandson did he finally change? Not at all, even swelled. See His behavior on the NEXT PAGE.
Also check out the following video about busui being humiliated by in-laws and read by Widi Mulia, Bun!
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